WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT BEING SINGLE.
BEING SINGLE IS A BLESSING NOT A CURSE.
“Your time as a single is the most important season of your life”
Being single is often seen as a problem that needs to be fixed. It has a negative connotation and is referred to as “being lonely” by many.
It is assumed that if you’re single, you are unlovable, rejected and missing out on all the goodness of life.
As a single this might make it uncomfortable for you with being single.
Singleness is not a state of rejection or loneliness and if you truly understand what singleness is all about, you won’t be bothered about what anyone says or think about you and the stage of life you are in.
Your season as a single is the best time you have to prepare for life and all that makes life interesting and worth living and this includes love and relationships.
Many times a lot of people are in a hurry to leave their season as a single and get hooked up with someone, this is one of the worst decisions anyone can ever make in his/her love life.
Singleness is not the same thing as loneliness, being single does not mean that you are rejected and that no one wants you.
Being single means you are content in yourself. Singleness buys you enough time to grow yourself and develop the kind of life that will attract and secure the right person for you.
There are a lot of blessings in being single but until you put your focus on knowing the blessings in singleness you will keep seeing the disadvantages that come with it.
The first person you need in your life is not someone else but yourself, if you fail to learn and master yourself you will have a lot of issues in dealing with other people.
The success in your dating relationship and marriage lies on how well you know about yourself, how much control you have over your emotions, and how connected you are to God.
You don't learn these things in a relationship but before starting a relationship.
How much commitment you show towards these factors is what determines the kind of person you will end up with and the strength of the relationship.
Being single is a blessing to maximize not a curse or a disease to get a cure for.
Being single is designed for self-development and it is your level of self development that will tell if you are ready for a relationship or not, if you will succeed in a relationship or not, if you have the capacity to build life and friendship with someone else or not.
Being single is all that you need to master your life and prepare yourself for a beautiful dating experience.
Many people who fail in relationships and marriage got into that situation because they failed to pay attention to their lives while single.
Any area of your life you fail to pay attention to now that you are single will disgrace you soon.
Pay close attention to your life and find out what you need to independently sustain yourself and be a blessing to anyone who is privileged to be with you.
Develop yourself and nurture your values for the world to see and glorify your father who is in heaven.
The right time to discover, define and drive your life is now that you are single because in a relationship the idea shifts from YOURSELF majorly to accommodate more of your partner's interest.